Experiences in the recent past ...have bestowed me many valuable lessons ...in life ..!!Life is indeed a learning process ....
1>I shall never ever invest in anything that doesn't promises me returns ...doesn't matter what it is ...business ...career choice ...or relationships (including friendships !) ....I don't need to stand out as the next mother teresa or something ...I am just being human when i put MY happiness first over others ..!Its perfectly OKAY to be selfish....everyone is ..!!! bigg deal ..eh? ...It hurts less when things go bad and people talk rogue to U ...atleast u know ..that u did everything for UR happiness while understanding that even they r doing the same ..!!
2> It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.I m glad that i did it ...i would have never been able to live with those MAYBE's and WHAT IF's...you cannot make someone love you ...don't expect ur LOVE to be understood !!! ...all you can do is to be someone who can be loved ...the rest is up to them ...i am satisfied that i tried my best ...but then sometimes even your best is just not good enough...
3>A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go...i realize now that letting go when required is as important as loving a person ...some things are just meant to b ..while some aren't .....probably one of the most important things to be learned in life is LETTING GO AND MOVING ON ...without bothering much ....I've learned that no matter how much i care ,some people just don't care back...the strategy is to take such people lite !!...don't hold anything against them..but at the same time ...don't let them be a cause for extra worries or interfere with your happiness either ...
4>Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do..i don't believe in the rebirth concept at all ...if it didn't happen in this life ...no need to fool yourself with pseudo optimism that ...u will get lucky in your next life ..lolz ...
5>U deserve what u get ...but its not always true the other way round!!...ie thrz no guarantee that u will always succeed at getting what u deserve ...i realize that NO matter how much u deserve it ...NOT everything will come your way ....in that case ...jus ACCEPT IT ....!!...as someone rightly said .."whatever doesn't kills u will only leave u stronger ..." ...
6>I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief ....NOONE ...and i repeat No1 would/can really understand your pain or wat u r going thriugh ..its U and only U who has to pull yourself together and take take hold of your life...All people do is to give you free advice while what you need is a shoulder for support and a finger to help you get up and moving ...
7>I've learned that learning to forgiving takes practise ....forgiving people who knowingly/unknowingly hurt you ..!!..who said things which speared through your heart ..i realize no matter how good a friend is ,they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that ...or very soon u' ll b just left alone ....In this one case ...PRACTISE WONT MAKE YOU PERFECT .!!....lolz....it'll just equip you better to absorb the pain ...and be more considerate ..u ll never get perfect at forgiving others ...but its OKAY ...Not holding anything against them helps in the long run ...and yeah one more thing....it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others..sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself !!!...actually FORGIVING YOURSELF is the first and most important(and difficult ?) part of the whole deal ....but still do it ...you'll be at peace...
8>I shall never pawn my self respect (again !!)...yes i have an issue with misinterpreting my ego as my self respect many a times ...but offlate more often than not its been the other way round ...in desperately trying to overcome this known weakness of mine ..i ve been too submissive ..(just to make sure ..that i am not on the wrong side ...!!)....no matter what ..i shall NOT compromise with my self respect ..the world can go f**k itself ...
9>I've learned that we are responsible for what we do ,no matter how we feel ..be honest to yourself ..i am accountable for every decision i make in my life ...and i have taken a lot of major onz in the recent past ...i must understand that many times in life...looking back is not an option ...and longer forward no longer a choice....thnx maa ...for giving me the values that give me the strength .. to be the guy who does ...NOT do what he wants to ..but what is RIGHT ...
10>I've learned that two people can look at the same thing and see something totally different..I would borrow someonz words to put it int he most perfect way ..."Its all very abstract ..and impulsive ..." ...The world simply doesn't runs by logic ....so don't try to reason out everything ...!!....there r abstract things (which are of imperative importance ...!!) that you'll never understand ..(mental frequencies being a case in point ??? :O ) ...you'll just make yourself miserable trying figuring out ....How the f**K could this be really happening !!!(and on holy earth to ME ?!!)..but then its best to attribute it to human whimsies ...forgive ,forget and move on ...!!!
11>Your family is important ..doesn't matters how far you are ..or how you get along ..never disrespect them ...the least you can do is to value their experience of life ..and listen to your parents ...Trust me ..Sometimes..the people you expect to kick you when you're down,will be the one's to help you get back up ....
12>You r never too old to stop making mistakes ...!!!....i m just 21 !! ...i m bound to make mistakes ... :D :D ....i just wish ..everytime when i lose ...i don't lose the lesson....
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way...:):)
13>Keep smiling ...:):) even if you have to fake it ...!!!
1>I shall never ever invest in anything that doesn't promises me returns ...doesn't matter what it is ...business ...career choice ...or relationships (including friendships !) ....I don't need to stand out as the next mother teresa or something ...I am just being human when i put MY happiness first over others ..!Its perfectly OKAY to be selfish....everyone is ..!!! bigg deal ..eh? ...It hurts less when things go bad and people talk rogue to U ...atleast u know ..that u did everything for UR happiness while understanding that even they r doing the same ..!!
2> It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.I m glad that i did it ...i would have never been able to live with those MAYBE's and WHAT IF's...you cannot make someone love you ...don't expect ur LOVE to be understood !!! ...all you can do is to be someone who can be loved ...the rest is up to them ...i am satisfied that i tried my best ...but then sometimes even your best is just not good enough...
3>A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go...i realize now that letting go when required is as important as loving a person ...some things are just meant to b ..while some aren't .....probably one of the most important things to be learned in life is LETTING GO AND MOVING ON ...without bothering much ....I've learned that no matter how much i care ,some people just don't care back...the strategy is to take such people lite !!...don't hold anything against them..but at the same time ...don't let them be a cause for extra worries or interfere with your happiness either ...
4>Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do..i don't believe in the rebirth concept at all ...if it didn't happen in this life ...no need to fool yourself with pseudo optimism that ...u will get lucky in your next life ..lolz ...
5>U deserve what u get ...but its not always true the other way round!!...ie thrz no guarantee that u will always succeed at getting what u deserve ...i realize that NO matter how much u deserve it ...NOT everything will come your way ....in that case ...jus ACCEPT IT ....!!...as someone rightly said .."whatever doesn't kills u will only leave u stronger ..." ...
6>I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief ....NOONE ...and i repeat No1 would/can really understand your pain or wat u r going thriugh ..its U and only U who has to pull yourself together and take take hold of your life...All people do is to give you free advice while what you need is a shoulder for support and a finger to help you get up and moving ...
7>I've learned that learning to forgiving takes practise ....forgiving people who knowingly/unknowingly hurt you ..!!..who said things which speared through your heart ..i realize no matter how good a friend is ,they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that ...or very soon u' ll b just left alone ....In this one case ...PRACTISE WONT MAKE YOU PERFECT .!!....lolz....it'll just equip you better to absorb the pain ...and be more considerate ..u ll never get perfect at forgiving others ...but its OKAY ...Not holding anything against them helps in the long run ...and yeah one more thing....it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others..sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself !!!...actually FORGIVING YOURSELF is the first and most important(and difficult ?) part of the whole deal ....but still do it ...you'll be at peace...
8>I shall never pawn my self respect (again !!)...yes i have an issue with misinterpreting my ego as my self respect many a times ...but offlate more often than not its been the other way round ...in desperately trying to overcome this known weakness of mine ..i ve been too submissive ..(just to make sure ..that i am not on the wrong side ...!!)....no matter what ..i shall NOT compromise with my self respect ..the world can go f**k itself ...
9>I've learned that we are responsible for what we do ,no matter how we feel ..be honest to yourself ..i am accountable for every decision i make in my life ...and i have taken a lot of major onz in the recent past ...i must understand that many times in life...looking back is not an option ...and longer forward no longer a choice....thnx maa ...for giving me the values that give me the strength .. to be the guy who does ...NOT do what he wants to ..but what is RIGHT ...
10>I've learned that two people can look at the same thing and see something totally different..I would borrow someonz words to put it int he most perfect way ..."Its all very abstract ..and impulsive ..." ...The world simply doesn't runs by logic ....so don't try to reason out everything ...!!....there r abstract things (which are of imperative importance ...!!) that you'll never understand ..(mental frequencies being a case in point ??? :O ) ...you'll just make yourself miserable trying figuring out ....How the f**K could this be really happening !!!(and on holy earth to ME ?!!)..but then its best to attribute it to human whimsies ...forgive ,forget and move on ...!!!
11>Your family is important ..doesn't matters how far you are ..or how you get along ..never disrespect them ...the least you can do is to value their experience of life ..and listen to your parents ...Trust me ..Sometimes..the people you expect to kick you when you're down,will be the one's to help you get back up ....
12>You r never too old to stop making mistakes ...!!!....i m just 21 !! ...i m bound to make mistakes ... :D :D ....i just wish ..everytime when i lose ...i don't lose the lesson....
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way...:):)
13>Keep smiling ...:):) even if you have to fake it ...!!!
4 comments:
I CERTAINLY AGREE WITH # 13!!!!!!!!!!
thank you for that GYAN beta..........!!!! woh kya kehte hain..........My billy and meaaooooooooo'ing myself only!!!! :p :p :D :D hee hee hee hee!!!! :P :P
@rashmi di ..
yeah ...it surely helps ...!!![:)]
@Misha di ..
:D :D :D :P :P :P
I disagree with #6
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